Just when I thought, I had nothing to blog about then a few incidents happened that perfectly illustrate something that we can all benefit from.
I want to share with you how we can correct the balance when we feel that the world has treated us unfairly.
I can get my feelings hurt very easily. It doesn’t take much to get me upset and feeling down about the world and my place in it. Yet, I am also very resilient and bounce back from my hurt feelings quickly.
My little trick for bouncing back, it is simple, I just ask myself if I can out give or out love God? The answer is always no. Therefore, my remedy to any slight is to give more and love more. This is not an easy task, by any means, yet it is a task that I do with the utmost urgency and discipline.
The first incident was that I was slighted by not being told that someone’s plans had changed and I waited an entire day for them to show up. The other one was that someone reneged on an agreement, which cost me both time and money. The temptation, after these types of incidents, is to cut these people off; after all, I must not be important to them. From there I may also want to stop extending myself to others.
However, I am not offering my services or extending myself for nothing; it is to the benefit of all and the glory of God. I truly cannot out do, out give or out love God; none of us can.
So, I would like to share with you one of the ways that I use these slights to help others and myself grow. I have a jar that I fill it with spare change, money that I find, money that I am paid for things I offered to do gratis, money that is paid but it was not the agreed on amount, and money that was owed me and was written off but came in out of the blue. Most of the reasons on my list you probably understand, it is extra, it is found, it is unexpected. However, the others need a bit more explanation. For example if someone pays me less than what they should or we agreed on, I normally would feel slighted that they didn’t honor me with what I am worth. When this happens, I might feel upset or unappreciated, to counter balance that and turn it around, I do not want to keep those funds with ill feelings attached, so I put them in my jar knowing that it will go to bless others. This shifts the balance back to where it needs to be; feeling blessed. Then someone will come to me through pray or other means that needs the money. If at the end of a specified amount of time, an individual person isn’t shown to me, I will write a check to a charity.
I need real, tangible ways to keep myself from going down a dark path and changing into one of those people that are closed off and unwilling or unable to give to others. I do not want to let these slights and hurts get the better of me and turn me into someone who is bitter. I want to be open, loving, and charitable. I want to give since I feel I have much to give. I am truly blessed and want to bless others.
Sitting down to write this today made me remember that this is why I blog; because I am blessed and I want to share those blessing with my readers. I am blessed to hear angels speak and to be able to share what they say with others. I am blessed beyond words or measure.
Oh dear ones, we come to bring you laughter and joy. We come to bring you an abundance. We come to bring you joy beyond measure. We come to bring you love.
Our dear one she wants to connect and give to you. We are here speaking to her and she, with us, speaks to the universe. If you need us please ask. We want to come and offer to you anything you need. We come soft. We come gentle. We come with love.
We come to show you ways of abundance and to be joyful and to share. All in abundance~ the universe gives to you unending.
Many loves love
We will name ourselves if we need to… just ask
Remember we cannot out give God and the holy angels. However, we can have fun in the process 🙂
Love and angels,